About Us
We believe many of the negative communication habits—defensiveness, reactivity, avoidance, etc.—are a result of not feeling heard. This work is rooted in a desire to understand by staying curious in our communication and taking personal responsibility. If your goals include feeling safe and secure enough to speak your truth, honoring your feelings, asking for what you need, and appreciating conflict (instead of avoiding it), we can help you achieve those goals.
Meet Ian
Some years ago, I embarked on a journey of self-discovery. Among the many things I learned, the most impactful was that authentic connection requires honest communication. Reflecting on my life-long fascination with understanding people, I recognized the crucial role of introspection in fostering healthy relationships. I spent years empowering individuals with tools to deepen their self-awareness and empathy. When the news of the success stories began to spread, I assembled a team of talented practitioners and healers to help spread this knowledge to anyone looking to create meaningful change in their life.
This work is rooted in integrity and curiosity, supporting clients in creating secure attachment through healthy foundational communication. Together, we can navigate the complexities of human connection and embark on a journey of empowerment, healing and profound understanding. I want you to feel heard!
See what others have said
Working with Ian completely transformed our relationship. Before, we were stuck in toxic cycles—passive-aggressive communication, avoidant tendencies, and constant misalignment. Ian gave us real, actionable tools that helped us break those patterns and communicate in a way that actually built intimacy instead of tearing us apart.
This work didn't just save our marriage—it made it stronger than we ever imagined. We no longer see conflict as a catastrophe, but as an opportunity to grow. The skills we learned have not only improved our relationship, but also how we communicate at work, with family, and even with our child.
We honestly believe that without Ian’s coaching, we wouldn’t be together today. The changes weren’t always easy—this work forces you to confront deep-seated behaviors—but the payoff has been incredible. Our dynamic has done a complete 180, and for the first time, we feel truly secure in our relationship.
Through Ian’s coaching, we learned how to create a safe space for real conversations, identify our own feelings and needs, and truly hear each other without defensiveness or assumptions. The Internal Exploration Cards helped us put words to our emotions, and tools like 'Are You Available?' and 'Do You Feel Heard?' changed how we approach difficult conversations.